Rori, Certainly, once upon a time a man who resisted me would fire up my brain. My rejection reflex would kick in and my thoughts would start going a mile a minute wondering why he said “no.” In many cases, I tried to get him to change his mind. Modern Sirens, How To Get A Man To Really Notice You! Reviews of rori raye modern siren. Modern Siren by Rori Raye. I had found my answer and I know now that it is up to me to become a modern siren and have the best relationship ever. Ripoff Report: Rori Raye Rori Raye This woman SAYS she's interested in YOU, but she is clearly only interested in money. Corporate Advocacy Program. Complaint Review: Rori Raye - Internet. Don’t let them Get away with it! Make sure they make the Ripoff Report. In fact, I did this with one man for years. I suppose I must have thought that if I could do everything right, I could turn his no into a yes. It took a lot of practice to stop doing that. A big part of it was realizing that his “no” was not about me. Most of the time, these are non-committal men who will say no to almost all women at some point. Secondly, I realized that resistance was not what I wanted in my life. I want a life of ease and peace. It just eventually becomes too exhausting to keep something going with a person who doesn’t want it as much as you, and you just stop wasting your energy. When a man says no these days, all I say is “ok” and I make myself turn my attention elsewhere. Finally, I realized that there are men who want me just as much (and often more) and these are the men who can give me what I want. So gradually, I have been able to overcome my attraction to men who resist. Eventually, those men just become people who don’t want the same things as I do. I have seen changes in the people I love. I myself have also grown and changed tremendously because of people I’ve loved, people who’ve hurt me and people who’ve taken the time with me. I’ve never seen someone change their fundamental nature though I’ve also never seen someone change what they deep down wanted out of life as a result of another person. That is to say, I’ve changed because of guys I’ve known and loved. And I’ve seen guys I’ve known and loved change as a result of me. But I’ve never been influenced to change who I am at my core, and I’ve never been influenced to change what I want out of life. I’ve never seen those changes occur in the guys or other people I’ve known either ? I believe if a man does not want commitment, no woman will make him want to commit. If he does end up happily committing, it is because he changed what he wanted for himself, not because she changed him. That is what I believe. Hello Indigo and Daria, I’m intrigued by your conversation. I believe that change is possible; I’ve seen it so many times. And two men have proposed to me who said they would never, ever marry again. They changed what they wanted for themselves? And I believe I inspired those changes. I’ve seen changes in families, too. One person does something different; it rocks the boat and the system no longer works. Everyone then has to change. And there’s so much resistance at first! And manipulation but then, gradually, if the catalyst stays in place, changes can happen. Oh I’m so attracted to movies where there is transformation in the main character. People live and love and things happen and they react and they learn and grow and change. But Feminine Woman! I know what you meant when you said you thought you were so powerful that people would change! I understand that you were possibly talking about ego I don’t think the guys who proposed to me did so because I was powerful. I think they did so because they fell in love with me and wanted to be with me forever, despite what they’d said previously. When they were talking before, it was in the abstract. And I was a real, live human being so that was possibly the difference. I just do believe that change is possible! If two people love each other they will change. There is no way of knowing if you really like a person or not, and no matter how long you stay together or how many times you go out on dates there is no way of knowing. You can feel it thought, that feeling is usually referred to as love. If you do not plan on having anything serious with a person then just tell them from the start. It is always important to be honest from the beginning on your intentions. I also disagree with a lot of things in this article. A Relationship is not a test nor a case study and most definitely not a chess game. Here’s a short letter from Eve to give you hope that baby steps WILL work for you: “Hi Rori I’m not sure but I think it is working ? I have your ebook and your siren series. I have been doing the same thing for years and years, not only with the men in my life, with everyone! I’m a very emotional person and my negative emotions have always led me to shut off, put up walls, throw tantrums and be an out right bitch. I also saw him drifting away so I clung on tighter. I would cling on so tight I’m sure i would have licked the dirt off his shoes just so he stayed. We had a fight on Friday night. I read your beautiful informative insights on sat afternoon. Wu tang clan the swarm.
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